What a woman wants

If you don't want your woman to have a mental break down on you or go look for interests elsewhere I would advise you take heed to these words.

I am a romantic. I give all before I receive. My world revolves around my husband and anyone who knows us knows that this is true. If were going out with friends we go out with his friends. Family get together? His family. His job and his interests come first always. This why he has everything and gets everything that he wants. No I can't buy everything all at once but I at least try to accommodate him somehow.

Anyways... if you have a woman who is lovey dovey be lovey back
Who cares what your boys think. If you don't want to be razzed about it don't do it in front of them.

If your woman is always cleaning and doing laundry. Take one of your days off and do it for her. NOT half assed either.

If she does something to you while being intimate, pretty sure she is wanting something similar also. Nibbling of the nipples, aggressive grabbing of the butt or tits. Wandering fingers. Don't take to much attention away from the pleasure you are offering her but offer some so you can read the signs.

RETURN THE FAVOR
You don't have to do it all the time but at least once a month love her and do for her as she does for you.

IDEAS:

While at the store picking something up for dinner or whatever buy one of those stupid fake roses or even better a real one. OR something that she likes to drink or snack on.

When sitting at home and she is to come home soon, cook dinner. NO NOT TAKE OUT! Actually make dinner.

Make an effort to clean the house so that it is noticeable. This includes the dishes and taking out the trash.

Surprise her at work. Have something delivered or stop buy to take her out to lunch. Even if it is to Subway. Even bringing her something is appreciated.

Rub her feet or give her a massage while you relax with one another.

Spend a day doing the things she loves.

TIPS:

Tell her you love her. Text message it to her if you have to. Make a 3 second phone call. Leave it on a note somewhere you know she will look. Leave a voicemail. Something just let her know. It will make her all mushy.

Don't ask her what she wants for Christmas or her birthday. Trust me she has been throwing out hints, you just don't listen.

Don't ask her where she wants to go for dinner(You should know her favorite places). Or what she wants to see at the movies(You should also know the kinds of movies she is into).

Work by her side with chores, don't get on the computer or start watching TV.

Change your rituals. Instead of coming home and doing your regular nightly thing play some bored games instead or make love till you pass out.

Express interest in her hobbies like she does yours. Help her to get what she wants instead of always taking.



Women do a lot more than you see them do. Or care to pay attention to. This is my weekday ritual.

The alarm goes off at 7:15am. Jerry is supposed to get up so he can do his computer stuff first. Instead he resets the alarm for 7:30am. Then again for 7:45am. Sometimes he actually gets up. Usually when the alarm goes off at 8:00am I get up unless I need to take a shower then it is 7:45. When Jerry finally decides to get out of the bed he goes straight to the computer room.... boxers and all. I get dressed and do my hair. I leash the cats and go out for a smoke. I tell Jerry twice I am going so that he has time to come too. He rarely does. After the smoke I brush my teeth, and do my makeup. Now it is around 8:25am. Next I feed our two lizards some red leaf lettuce, turn off the turtles nightlight, and turn on the vine snakes light. Returning to the kitchen I make my husbands lunchbox/medical bag. Finishing that I grab my purse, his bag, and the phones and put them in the truck, putting my keys in the ignition. I come back in and tell Jerry we need to leave and sit down to check my email. It is now 8:45am. Jerry now gets up and gets dressed, combs his hair, and sets the house alarm. 9:00am we hop in the truck to leave for work. Every morning he stops at circle K, starbucks or sonic to get something for breakfast or to drink. Around 9:30am we arrive at his work and I get in so that I can leave for work. I have to be there at 10am. By the time I arrive it is 9:50am. Thank god I am the manager and I have knowone watching me.

At 7:00pm I get off work and drive back to his work to pick him up. I wait for awhile and he finally comes out. After having a smoke with his co-workers we leave. Somewhere around 9:00pm we are either just getting home or have been their for about 30 minutes. I immediately go into the kitchen and start preparing dinner. While it cooks I either do the dishes or I sit on the couch so that we can watch our prerecorded shows from the past week. Every 10 minutes getting up to check on dinner. Dinner finishes and I serve it to him in the living room so that we can continue watching tv. After dinner we have a smoke, and watch more shows. Around 11:00pm or 12:00pm we turn off the TV and have our last smoke. He goes to the computer room and I turn off the lights and set the house alarm. I turn off the 2 lizards lights, turn on the turtles lights and feed them. I check the cats food and water then turn off the vine snakes light. Checking to make sure the doors are locked I tell Jerry I am going to take a bath and will be out in 30 minutes. (My bathtime is my serenity moment I do not like being disturbed). Finishing with the bath I put my shorts and t-shirts on then set the alarm clocks. (We have 2). After making the bed I turn on the fan and lay down to read some hoping my husband will come to bed very soon. I yell for him and wait. Thirty minutes pass and I put the book away and pass out with the light on. Then the day repeats.

My days off consist of laundry every single time, and paying the bills, as I only get one day off. While doing laundry I take out the trash and do some spot cleaning. I would rather sleep in but I know that I have to get dinner thawed out, check on work, do laundry, and write my blog :). hehe When it is getting around time for him to get home I will start cooking dinner and doing dishes. By the time he arrives dinner is ready or very close to it, laundry is done just not put away, and the trash is picked up. He either jumps on his computer or sits on the couch till I call him to come and eat. His days off are awesome. He gets 2 in a row both on the weekend and he goes out with his friends to snake hunt. Leaving before or almost immediately after I leave for work. Saturdays I work an 11 hour shift, getting in at 9am. After work when he don't have the truck I go home and plop down on the couch to relax and rub my own feet. If he took the truck I either have to take a taxi or wait around till he shows up. If he is not home I will munch on sandwich or eat some crackers. Somewhere before midnight he comes home and we look at pictures, then my nightly ritual begins all over again. Alarm, bath.... blah blah blah. When he is home I come home and cook dinner and I just replay my weekday nightly schedule. Dinner, dishes, blah blah blah.