Do you notice

I put my hair down when we're out running around?

I put on flavored chapstick when we kiss?

I wear perfume when we're making love?

I haul ass to get home so your dinner is ready when you arrive?

Keep everything picked up so you don't see the clutter?

Turn down events with friends so you are not stuck with the baby?

Have dinner for you ready every single night?

Give you time for your PC or Xbox?

Let you go out with friends?

Make your coffee every morning?

Don't get on you when you buy yourself stuff?

Ask for nothing?

Keep your kid occupied so he is not bothering you?

Go out of my way to bring you lunch or something you forgot?

Take care of the house and ask for little to no help?

Make sure you are comfortable so you can sleep?

Keep everyone quiet so you can sleep?

Buy you gifts, even if it is a soda,  whenever I go out?

Make appointments on my time so you are not inconvenienced on your day off?

Try not to annoy you with my pain or if I'm sick,  by not telling you?

Wait you hand and foot when your sick or not?

Do nothing when people put me down.  Even when it is your family?

Try to look my extra best for you when we do something nice? Even though it's like 2 times a year,  if that?

Probably not.  You only notice when I do it wrong. 

Help he says

This was written a month ago thought I lost it.

Hahhahahahahha that's fucking funny. 

So Dave this morning decided to pull the I have to do everything involving the bills. Yelling why don't you help me (his voice even cracked like he was going to cry). So I went ok then you start helping me with the house and your son and I will. This made him yell louder.  He said I'm sick of being broke every two weeks.  Why don't you get a job.  I looked at him and said because you said you wanted me to be a stay at home mom. Then our son got too difficult and I'm the only one who watches him. Now he's in school and I still can't get a job because then I get calls from the school to come get him or talk to him because he has become a lunatic.

This all started with him being mad about us being broke.  Saying we owe the HOA $200. I said we should not pay until they fix the wall that they broke back in July.  He said the HOA would tear us apart in court and win.  I stated that we have video proof they were on the wall.  We have email correspondence in reference to the wall.  Then he went into being broke again and that's where the fighting started. 
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I never finished writing it as the day progressed to him being pissed off at every little thing.  Then dealing with the HOA for weeks.  It's fixed now and we pay monthly to them.  But I wanted this posted cause he actually pulled the help me card.  You know the one that I'm always pulling.